I have felt stunted when it comes to writing here on the blog. I have at least 10 posts started. And yet each time I have talked myself out of finishing it. I am not really sure why, but I can’t seem to get my thoughts together enough to finish one, Tonight however, I feel like I have to write. To get something out of my head in hopes of letting things go.
I believe I have mentioned before that I am working towards some huge life changes. Changes that each day I have to remind myself that I signed up for this and that I am not only ready for but that I can DO IT. That has been as much a challenge as the actual changes. So if you are not aware, here is what I have coming in the next 13 months or so.
Change #1 – Weight Loss Surgery
After years of defending my position of NOT have surgery, I have come to the realization that I can’t go on the way I have been and surgery is the kick start I need to make the HUGE life changes necessary. I am trapped in my body right now and I live in constant pain. This is not a life I want to continue.
Change #2 – Cognitive, Behavioral, and Mental Health Changes
Part of losing the weight is understanding why I gained in the first place. Therapy and life coaching is part of that. It is bringing up a lot of things that I don’t choose to talk about and I certainly don’t like to think about. The best thing I can say, is that God is bringing me around full circle and the issues I am working on in therapy have had a way of coming up in other places – reinforcing these ideas over and over.
Change #3 – Marriage (!!!) & Wedding Planning
So this Feb I got engaged and next May I will be saying “I Do” to a sweet man who loves me completely. And I feel the same way about him. This is a first for me and a lot of these months is not just planning a wedding, but also trying to get ready for the commitment and changes that come with the marriage.
Change #4 – Moving
Once I get married, I will be moving to Leesburg. This is a change I am not really ready for. Of all of the changes, it is the one I am most worried about. It makes the most sense – my job is flexible and J already owns his condo. But I have been so much better living in the country vs my time in the busyness of NOVA and I don’t really relish moving back up there. I am not sure that anyone really understands that but I am a better person down here – less angry, worried and stressed. I am hoping that the fact that I will not need to commute to work will help keep me in a better place once I move.
That is a lot right? A lot for one year at least. These are just the big things – there are a ton of smaller things that I have for this year as well. I feel like God has been prepping me for all of these changes. Now I just need to trust that He has this in His hands…what is meant to happen will.
The Lord is my light and my salvation—
whom shall I fear?
The Lord is the stronghold of my life—
of whom shall I be afraid?
When the wicked advance against me
to devour me,
it is my enemies and my foes
who will stumble and fall.
Though an army besiege me,
my heart will not fear;
though war break out against me,
even then I will be confident.
One thing I ask from the Lord,
this only do I seek:
that I may dwell in the house of the Lord
all the days of my life,
to gaze on the beauty of the Lord
and to seek him in his temple.
For in the day of trouble
he will keep me safe in his dwelling;
he will hide me in the shelter of his sacred tent
and set me high upon a rock.
Then my head will be exalted
above the enemies who surround me;
at his sacred tent I will sacrifice with shouts of joy;
I will sing and make music to the Lord.